Thursday, November 27, 2008

husband survey

1. He's sitting in front of the tv, what is on the screen? most likely the sci fi channel.

2. You're out to eat what kind of dressing does he get on his salad? None - if we go out to eat, the last thing he wants to do is pay for a salad.

3. What's one food he doesn't like? vegetables.

4. You go out to the bar, what does he order? nothing alcoholic. this is something I love about him. If we DID actually go to A BAR, he would order some kind of fruit smoothie if he was getting fancy, otherwise a coke.

5. Where did he go to high school? Carson CA. Why would anybody want to know this unless it was an identity theft kind of thing? What does this proove? Why wouldn't I know where he went to high school? Ask something a little more interesting please.

6. What size shoe does he wear? 7 1/2.

7. If he was to collect anything, what would it be? Junk mail. by default, he collects anything he doesn't want to have to make a decision about keeping or chucking. This includes receipts and mail, any kind of documents, worn out clothes. He used to collect comic books and magic the gathering cards.

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich? roast beef

9. What would this person eat every day if he could? chinese food, or anything with fried rice

10. What is his favorite cereal? Lucky Charms, Count Chocula

11. What would he never wear? a tie, unless forced to by gun point

12. What is his favorite sports team? NONE. Do you read this people? I am the luckiest non sports widow in the world. His favorite sport is martial arts, followed by volley ball. He would rather do them than watch them.

13. Who will he vote for? Well he wanted to vote for Ron Paul, like me, until he dropped off the ballot. So then we weren't sure what to do, because we don't care much for either the Republican or Democratic parties. But then he said, "I think I'll vote for Obama because I'm so sick of hearing people call him 'n1@@*r'. Gotta love that man.

14. Who is his best friend? Me. I mean that. I wish he kept in touch with his old friends more. Next I would pick David, who is our son's godfather. But my dh has a very hard time maintaining friendships. Most people have to meet him more than half way.

15. What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn't do? Make him leave the house occasionally and socialize with others.

16. How many states has he lived in? two, and a trust territory, and a foreign country too.

17. What is his heritage? Filipino - again, what wife doesn't know this about their husband? PUH-lease.

18. You bake him a cake for his birthday; what kind of cake? Fudge brownies with powdered sugar icing and crushed oreos.

19. Did he play sports in high school? martial arts and volleyball, but not FOR his high school

20. What could he spend hours doing? Playing rpg video games or sci fi channel marathons.

21. Favorite color? I don't think he has one. He wears a lot of black and dark blue.

22. What kind of music is on his car stereo presets? None. I'm guessing they are all talk radio.

23. Does he read books/magazines and if so what kinds? Books and magazines, though mostly books. Mostly of the sci fi variety. At least a couple new ones a month. The magazines are probably gaming or computer graphics related.

24. You are in a stadium/hall with your husband. Is it a conference, a sporting event, a concert, or a play/musical? Probably a concert. He's not a fan of big crowds though. He listens to music he would never see live due to the scary fans.

25. He gets to pick his ideal vacation - what is it? Locked in the house with his computer and cable tv. If he HAS to leave, it would be somewhere warm (with an air conditioner nearby) where he can sit on his butt, read a book, and take an occasional swim, and not have to talk to people. If I'm there, then he is also naked in bed a lot.

26. What does he really think of his mother in law? He doesn't have deep relationships with most of our relatives, but he gets along with her just fine. He knows she is a little nutty. He invited her to live with us once, so I guess that's a good sign.

27. How does he truly feel about religion? Well, he believes, but sitting in a crowded church or reading scripture is not his idea of a good time. He was born into a catholic family, and he has an aversion to organized religion or very judgmental people.

28. He gets to start over again in picking a career - would he keep the one he has, or choose something else? Would probably pick something close to what he has, maybe with more of an artisitic flair. Though I'm pretty sure he would have done college completely differently.

29. If you have kids, do you thinkg he would still if he got a do over? If you don't have kids, do you think he wishes that you did? He wanted kids so badly that even though he was totally surprised by what it was actually like, I think he'd still have at least one. I think he just wishes he had been more prepared, more financially stable since I got very sick when our first kid was born, and it was financially devastating.

30. If you guys could go back in time to before you got married, would he still want to? HE would. I think I would have made him live on his own for a little while first instead of going from his parents house to my house.